This post seems unreal to me, I'm not sure how much I have to give to it.
So I'll be brief.
A few days ago, I lost my best friend.
Even though he had been sick for a long while, and declining in health, it was a
shock.
It was unexpected.
An unattended death, they called it.
My head has been spinning since. Trying to absorb it, trying to accept it.
I'll be ok, because that's how I roll, He wouldn't want it any other way.
I hope that he is no longer feeling weak, and tired, and sick.
I pray that he is free of all of that, and if he is, then I'm willing to put up with this ache,
until we meet again.
48 comments:
My heart aches for you. May he rest in peace.
Hilary, I am so very sorry for your loss. I virtually wrap my arms around you. Be good to yourself. We love you and love reading your posts. You are so real. Thank you. Hugs.
I am so sorry. I love reading your blog and appreciate your virtual friendship. Please accept my condolences over the interwebs. May you find peace, and may his memory be a blessing to you.
I am so sorry for your loss. I hope that he has found peace and that you may find peace as well. May I express my most sincere condolences.
I am so very sorry for your loss. Take care and take time. -Jenn
I've enjoyed following your blog for about three years and have worried for your health for the last few months. However, I have also felt your strength through your posts. I am so very sorry for the loss of your husband and best friend. I hope you are comforted by memories of him. Sending virtual hugs for you in your grief. Be gentle with yourself.
So sorry for your loss! Peace to you on the road ahead. Olivia, a quiet reader.
My tears are falling for you. I am so sorry you have to endure this. Virtual hugs with a nice cuppa any time, day or night.
I am so sorry for your loss, 3 months ago today I lost my husband. It has been harder than I could imagine. Be gentle with yourself.
I have read of your resilience over the years with your health issues and the loss of your mother.
I wish you peace and ease finding your new life without him.-pppppppppppppp
Dear Hilary,
I am so very sorry for your loss. Sending prayers and hugs.
So very sorry for your loss. Sending virtual hugs!
I am so sorry for your loss.
I am so sorry for your loss. My Mom died on June 19th and while I knew it would happen I was nowhere ready for it.I hope the memories you have of your life together will help you in the days ahead.
So very sorry for your loss. I can see the love in your photos. Sending a cyber hug and deep condolences from Greenwich NY
So sorry for your loss. Jan
Losing our best friend is so much to bear, because we loved them so much. What was that line in the show "Wandavision"? "Grief is love persevering." I am so sorry.
I am so very sorry for your loss. May you find all the strength and comfort you need in the love of your family and friends. The greater the love, the greater the grief.
Oh Hilary, I'm so sorry to hear this. My deepest condolences to you, the girls and the grands. You will all miss him and your love for each other will hopefully bring you comfort. Sending you a hug, Deb
I'm so sorry for your loss, your family's loss. My heart aches for you. Big hugs.
Oh Hilary,such sad news!Sending you a big hug all the way from Greece. Dimitria.
Hilary, again, I am so sorry to hear of your loss, so difficult to lose someone we love so much. You and family will be comfort for each other, and share the good times and memories with each other. I lost Phil going on 18 years ago, and at times it feels like yesterday. You are a strong woman, be kind to yourself. Keeping all of you in my thoughts, and sending warm hugs.
i am still reeling over my husband's passing almost 8 months ago .. i think we never get over losing someone we loved, tho i expect (someday) to learn to live with that loss .. hugs to you
My sincere heartfelt condolences dear friend.
Your photographs speak volumes of a life well-lived and loved.
Rest in Peace dear Bill.
Jo
I lost mine 4-1/2 yrs ago and there's not a day that I don't miss him. It is surely the most awful thing I ever experienced. While it never really gets better, it does get easier, strength.
I am so sorry, but so pleased I was able to meet Bill.
I am so very sorry for your loss.
Hilary - I am so very sorry for your loss. May your strength lead you through this difficult and sad time. Wishing you brighter days ahead.
Love & Hugs,
Kathy
I'm so sorry for your loss. Marcia
I am so very sorry. I wish you peace and comfort.
I am so sorry. May you find peace, and may his memory be a blessing to you.
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I'm so very sorry for the loss of your dear friend. Sending hugs and love to you during this hard time.
Oh Hilary, I am so sorry for your loss.
Hilary, I am so sorry to read this. Lots of love coming your way.
I'm so sorry ❤🫂
I'm so very, very sorry for your unimaginable grief and loss. I wish I had the words to ease in some way but those words are lost on me. Time is a fickle tyrant, that I know, and a bastard at that. I don't pray but I will talk to the night sky as I've done my entire life and hope that whatever is up there, beyond the clouds and the wonder, listens intently to my whispers this one time.
You are, as you have been for a long season, in my heart. With Love.
Your Pal,
Michael
My most sincere condolences. I can't even imagine how you are feeling. Take care of you. Hugs from Kansas.
I'm so sorry to read this. He sounds like a good person and i know you will miss him and all the little things that made him special. Take care and sending positive thoughts to you this day.
Oh my, I am so very sorry to hear about your loss. Please know that I am thinking of you and sending you many warm and healing thoughts.
I’m so sorry.
What an awful loss. I am very sorry.
Jackie M
:-(
No words make it better here, but I'm wishing you peace in your heart as you move forward. He had a lovely life because you were in it, this I know for sure.
I have followed your blog for a few years and have always admired you with your outlook on life. Today, I feel so sorry that you’ve lost your soulmate. Memories are wonderful things to hopefully get you through your darkest hours. Thank you for sharing
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I am so sorry Hilary.
Nancy
Oh my deal girl, I am so sorry. May you find the strength you need to move forward.
I’m so sorry to hear about your husband. Mine died 2 years ago just 8 months after being diagnosed with cancer he was 58. Life sure throws wrenches Sending a hug.
I'm so sorry for your loss. (I haven't been online in ages, so I had to catch up on the posts.) Please take care of yourself.
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