Crazy as a Loom

Monday, April 21, 2014

Just sad

   
I wish I wasn't writing this post.   It makes me so sad, and sick at heart.
Life is so unfair sometimes.


L called me this morning, with lots of bad news.
She lost her Mom last night, and then found Nexxie dead in the road.

I like to think that her Mom, who lived just a ways from the studio, took Nexxie with her.

But nothing is going to make me feel much better today.

30 comments:

DebbieB said...

Sending L lots of love, and you too.

kelley said...

So sorry for all the loss...I love the idea of Nex going to heaven as a companion...hugs

Thistle Rose Weaving said...

Oh dear, what sad news. Please give my best to L. Dear Nexie had a job to do, I shall miss that cat. Hugs for you and L.

LA said...

It's always more fun to go to a new place with a friend. I think you might be right.

Cindie said...

Oh dear - so sad on both accounts.

Gayle said...

So sad. L and family are in my heart.

Hilary said...

I just replied to your email, my friend. I'll keep the mental hugs coming through the day.

Deanna said...

I am so sorry for your lose. I am watching a very old cat (over 20 years) wondering how long she will last, but that sudden lose is so bad. My best wishes to L. The lose of a mother is so hard, as you well know.

rosek1870 said...

So very sorry. There are no words only prayers.

JC said...

Oh no .. I am so sorry.

MrsB said...

So sorry to read such sad news this morning for you and for L.

It is hard to lose a companion anytime.

And the idea of Nex going on with L's mom is just beautiful.

Take care....

A Brit in Tennessee said...

Oh so very sorry to read this. I'm hoping she took kitty with her to heaven also.
My sincere condolences to L. and hugs to you dear friend.
~Jo

claudia said...

Life does not seem fair at times. My prayers are with L and you. Lots of hugs!

messymimi said...

Please accept my condolences, i'm so sorry.

Hartwood Roses said...

We all came to love Next through your photos and adoring words. What you did with him was wonderful ... his short life was richer for having you and Lois and everyone else in it. Love and hugs coming your way, for you and for Lois. So much loss. I'm so sorry.

Karen said...

:-(

Just that.

Susan Harvey said...

Hugs from us...
(Life just sucks sometimes...)

Susan and Bruce

Mary Ann said...

How awful. I'm so sorry. Mary Ann

ladyoftheloom said...

I want to go to heaven with a cat! All of L's good cat deeds are rewarded today, one is taking care of her mum. All the same I know Nexie will be missed.

Daryl said...

oh Hilary this breaks my heart .. i am so very sorry for L's loss .. and Nexie i am sitting here feeling a bit lost .. i am so so sorry for you ... sending hugs

Mary Agenten said...

I hate cars on so many different levels. A monster of metal vs a tiny fairy spirit.

My condolences to Lois. I am so sorry.

Mary Agenten said...

I hugged each one of my cats today in honor of Nexi.

Rita said...

Oh no!
I want to think they went off together, too.
*hugs*

Country Girl said...

No. Oh, just no. I am so sorry. Please convey my sympathy to your dear L. Nexxie was so glad to have you and I am so sorry that it was time to go.

Diane said...

I am so so sorry. Sending hugs and love to you and L.

Shuttle, Hook and Needle said...


Too sad.

Amanda Cutler said...

My heart hurts. We lost our kitty last Monday (4-14-14) and it still hurts too much. Maybe our kitties are friends now. I am sorry to to hear about L's mom and hope L is doing ok.

Vicky said...

hugs and love coming your way- you're right-no words really do this justice.

MarthaVA said...

(((Hugs))) and healing for your heart, and for L. So sorry for her loss and yours. Poor Nexxie. He had a good life with you.
Martha

Paula DeBubba said...

I'm so sorry Hilary for your loss of Nexie. You certainly provided her with a much better life than before he met you. Don't second guess yourself for not bringing him inside, you did your best. Not too many folks make a solar house so their feral cats are comfortable! Perhaps she'll find her way back to you in her next life. Prayers for you & L.

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